Sunday, March 27, 2011
Freak Out
Well I have recently had a little freak out in my relationship journey with "Toby." He launched the "L" word the other day and personally I think it's way too soon for that!! We have only been dating since the end of January so we have only known each other for about two months. Needless to say I told him that bothered me and that I wasn't at that point. Once again I explained we needed to take it down a notch! He instead kept saying it at the end of every conversation and text message! UGH What to do? Last night I had to have yet another talk about it and told him that by him saying he loves me all the time is making me want to turn around and run!!! Run very fast away!!! I think that grabbed his attention - Thank God! Because I was seriously considering telling him it was over. Lord only knows where this is going but I don't think we are at the "Love" stage of it at all! He told me he knew from the first time he met me we were ment to be together. That feaked me out too! When do you know if it's Love anyway? I have strong feelings for him but I don't know if it's "Love." I have so much going on in my life as of late with family and work not to mention trying to have a relationship. Having the pressure of the "L" word dropped on me sent me into a feeling of wanting to withdraw from him. I'm happy I can talk to him about this but I am hoping he doesn't just stop for the time being to make me happy to just start up again next week. I know relationships are work so that's why I didn't just run away - I'm giving it a shot. But when is it too soon to say you Love someone?
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I think u just know when its love..... Cant stop thinkin about the person - u smile when u hear there name, when they call or text u, u just smile thinkin about them. They say sumpin nice and u get HB's or all gushy inside. I guess it can be different for everybody but I would think love and a little lust would be a pretty good combination. If u have to ask yourself if its love then u probably are not in love. I dunno - :-) just my 2cents worth
ReplyDeleteok Carrie Bradshaw (last sentence) i think u are doing the right thing by telling him how you feel about the L drop..... it may too soon for you to hear it and he should steer clear of dropping it again to u feel that you can to if and when you get to that point. U are a very busy busy girl and relationships are work and even though they do put you in a comfortable state of bean bagness.....your world and his are still there out side the comfy zone of bag potatoe ya know.....
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