So I was thinking about it and women are like gardeners when it comes to love. We have to "weed" through all the bad ones in order to find that prize "flower" we want to grow through life with. Think about it ladies, we meet men, pluck them out of their environments to see if they can grow and thrive in ours and if they don't, we put them back in the soil they came from for another woman/gardener to tend to them. Starting the process all over again.
This dating thing is so tedious, just like gardening! I mean really, it breaks your back but in the end you end up happy with the results! Right!? Well, we'll find out if my new found philosophy is right, won't we. I mean we have to time our first calls (preparing the soil), our first face to face meeting should only be 1-2 hours (digging the hole to plant the seed), then we have to decide if we want to see each other again (plant the seed), if so we have a timed talk and then meet again (water the seed). Each time divulging just a little more about ourselves to see if we "click" with each other, if there is that special "spark" that could blossom into something more. Each meeting we are tending to our potential flower in the hopes of turning it into a perennial garden full of butterflies. We nurture our seedling until we see if it has the potential to become something bright and beautiful, if not we plant a new seed and see where it goes. But we have to remember not to spend too much time on our new seedling, because it could turn out to be poison ivy! Go with your gut when it comes to first impressions. If you don't like what you see in the early stages, you're likely to really be diappointed with the final results. Pull it out of your garden and start a new one. So ladies, let's all go get a green thumb and tend to our potentially promising potted plant!
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